Men don’t have our paranoias

Dear ladies,
I want to say that most of the time, men don’t realise they hurt you.
They don’t rush at reading your messages, but that doesn’t mean they lost interest.

How long has it been since the last one?

They don’t think that, and they don’t read the same plain lines on a screen time and time; unless it is a charming one.
They don’t stress over some emojis because it won’t help them understand how you are feeling.
Why do you ask? Because they want it to understand it yourself.

They like it when a girl is simple, complicated, at the same time uncomplicated.
They like seeing the real, happy, amusing, and witty.
Men don’t think about what you will wear on your first date; they will focus on discovering your true beauty, not your attire. That is not what attracted them to you. So, you can show off your dress, your legs, your tits, and your ass. But in the big scheme of things, they are unnecessary details.
Men want more than passing a couple of hours in bed with you. They want more than amounts of make-up. It is said masks fall easily.

Heads or tails? Send or not. They are sometimes afraid. Afraid of rejection, but they do send that text. And if it doesn’t work? Patience, it’s a big world, and life is long.
They don’t have our paranoias and mind trips because they look for a girl to take to a bar, not the altar.

They don’t go running to their best friends, telling of conversations and failed attempts of deciphering words, words that might’ve not meant anything.
Being a man doesn’t mean only thinking only about sex. It’s an annoying way of seeing them, and maybe, that’s what makes them like that.
They play it cool and don’t show emotions but indifference; because it’s not manly to, right?
Dear ladies, I want to say that men do love, in different ways.
That men do suffer, whine and at times cry.
But this is their secret: men don’t have our paranoias.

And they like it better like that.